Narcissists rarely text first, viewing it as a sign of weakness. They prefer to wait until you reach out, at which point they will bombard you with messages to regain control. Their reluctance to make plans or keep commitments also means you often have to initiate any interaction, giving them the upper hand in managing the narrative.
7. Feigned Interest and Concern
To maintain appearances, narcissists may occasionally send texts that feign interest in your well-being or express how much they miss you. These messages are part of their manipulative arsenal, designed to make you feel valued and keep you hooked. However, this concern is superficial, aimed solely at securing your emotional supply.
8. Hot and Cold Behavior
Narcissists are masters of inconsistency, often alternating between being extremely affectionate and completely distant. This erratic behavior keeps you off balance, making you more dependent on their approval. They can be sweet and caring one moment and cruelly indifferent the next, perpetuating a cycle of emotional confusion.
9. Manipulative Praise and Criticism
A narcissist’s messages might swing from high praise to biting criticism without warning. This tactic keeps you craving their approval while simultaneously undermining your self-esteem. Their praise is a tool to bind you closer, while their criticism is used to exert control and diminish your confidence.
10. The Illusion of Depth
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