Narcissists are incredibly cunning and may accuse you of being a narcissist. They’ll highlight any actions of yours that could be perceived as self-centered and use them to shift the focus off themselves. This tactic can confuse others and make them question your intentions. To avoid this, ensure you present a clear and unbiased case when calling them out.
4. Blame Shifting
When narcissists can’t defend themselves, they often resort to blame-shifting. They might blame their upbringing, bad parenting, or even you for their behavior. This is their way of avoiding responsibility and painting themselves as victims. Remember, narcissists rarely, if ever, take accountability—they’re always “right.”
5. Silent Treatment
The silent treatment is another weapon in the narcissist’s arsenal. If they sense they’re losing, they may withdraw communication entirely. This tactic is designed to make you feel guilty and question whether you were too harsh. The goal is to break your resolve and elicit an apology from you, even when you’ve done nothing wrong.
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