In my view, there are five primary reasons why a narcissist will go out of their way to start an argument or pick a fight and then shift the blame onto you. In this article, I unpack the five primary reasons why narcissists pick fights, but I don’t stop there. So, what’s up with the…
Narcissism is like the rabies virus. When it enters your body, it doesn’t show any initial signs or symptoms, and you have some time, an incubation period, for it to grow, for it to reach your central nervous system. But once it hits you, once it enters your brain, you’re gone. Similarly, a narcissist gets…
A narcissist has to keep you in the dark dungeons of their control, keeping you in an absolute state of powerlessness and worthlessness to feel better about themselves. It is their heart’s desire to always see you suffering the way they left you, to reinforce their delusional belief in omnipotence. But when you rise from…
Walking away from a narcissist is like knocking the throne out from under an entitled queen. You see, the narcissist has built up an entire false persona around the narrative that they are some kind of royalty. Like an entitled ruler, they believe they should always get more than they give. So, if they were…
When we think of the dangers of a narcissistic relationship, the mind often jumps to verbal and physical abuse or controlling behaviors. While these are certainly harmful, the most perilous aspect of being involved with a narcissist is their inconsistent nature and hot-and-cold behavior. This unpredictability is what truly ensnares a person, creating a trauma…
Today I will be talking about some things that can motivate a Narcissist to return. But it is important to note that whether you discarded the Narcissist, or they discarded you once you eventually decide that No Contact is the best approach it is highly recommended to keep it that way. Allowing a Narcissist back…
The narcissist will begin to devalue their partner rather than getting closer to them. This period can be seen as one of the most painful for victims, who are left wondering why this is happening and how much more pain there could possibly ever seem like in life? The narcissistic abuser’s emotional abuse cycle starts…
the saddest truth about being the victim of narcissistic abuse? The saddest truth about being the victim of narcissistic abuse is that narcissists never really change. They may apologize and swear that they will never do it again, but the pattern always repeats itself. narcissists are experts at gaslighting and manipulating their victims, making them…
Have you ever been subjected to silent treatment? A narcissist enjoys this passive-aggressive type of abuse, in which they ignore you and pretend they don’t care. While there are various ways to take revenge on narcissists, the silent treatment is the most effective. The best kind of revenge is always silence. Read this article as…
You have heard about narcissistic collapse, haven’t you? A phase that a narcissistic individual goes through when they run out of supply. But I’m sure you haven’t heard about some weird things they do during this phase, during the process of collapsing, how they cope, and what they do to run away from it. We…