This is a classic scenario: he’s already with someone else but insists you’re the one he truly wants. He assures you that he’s just waiting for the right time to leave his partner and that you’re the reason he’s staying. It may feel like you’re the “chosen one,” but here’s the hard truth: a man who is serious about you wouldn’t make excuses to delay ending his current relationship.
Why does he stay with his partner if he’s so unhappy? This promise could be a tactic to keep you emotionally hooked without sacrificing the comfort his current relationship provides. And if he does leave his partner, you might find yourself questioning his loyalty — if he was willing to cheat with you, what’s stopping him from cheating on you?
Why It’s Questionable: If a man is torn between you and another woman, he’s making his indecision your problem. You deserve someone who wants to be with you, no strings attached. He should end his previous relationship because it isn’t working, not because of you. Otherwise, your potential relationship is built on deception, guilt, and emotional baggage.
2. He Says, “I Need Your Help” — Especially Financially
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