Maybe he’s suddenly facing financial troubles or needs help covering an emergency expense. It starts small: he borrows a little here and there, and you’re happy to help. But over time, the requests grow, and before you know it, you’ve become his personal ATM.
What’s Really Going On: Helping each other is normal in a healthy relationship, but if he constantly asks for financial assistance without reciprocating, it’s a red flag. Some men exploit kindness and empathy, using guilt and emotional manipulation to make their financial irresponsibility your problem. They may imply you’re the only one they can count on, subtly promising a future or deep bond to keep you giving — even when you’re getting nothing in return.
Why It’s Questionable: A man who loves you wouldn’t exploit your kindness for financial gain. Financial manipulation is a slippery slope. Once you start supporting him, it becomes harder to pull away without feeling guilty. If there isn’t a balanced give-and-take, you might be dealing with emotional and financial manipulation.
3. “I’m Not Ready for a Commitment Right Now”
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