Flattery feels amazing. He tells you that you’re the best thing that’s happened to him or that you’re so much better than his ex. You might feel like he truly appreciates you, but is this praise genuine, or is it disguised manipulation?
What’s Really Going On: Compliments are wonderful when sincere, but constant comparisons to his ex or over-the-top praise can be a tactic to fast-track your emotional attachment. If he keeps bringing up his ex, ask yourself why he’s so fixated on the past. Excessive flattery might actually mask his lack of genuine interest in a deeper connection.
Why It’s Questionable: Excessive flattery can be a way to control your emotions, making you crave his validation and distracting you from real issues. Manipulative people know that making you feel special keeps you invested, even when their words don’t match their actions.
5. “I Need You to Do This for Me” — Constant Dependence
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