A narcissist’s enabler is more dangerous than the narcissist themselves. In fact, this enabler, this flying monkey, causes more damage than the actual monster. Don’t believe me? Let me prove it to you in this episode. If you don’t know what an enabler is, well, it’s a person who kisses a narcissist’s behind. It’s as…
Narcissistic Relationship Cycle When we observe the usual narcissistic relationship cycle—idealization, devaluation, discarding, and hoovering—it may seem that the narcissist is fully in control. It feels like the narcissistic person is the one pulling the strings, engaging in love bombing, seduction, or displaying pseudo-empathy. However, once they have you, they start losing interest, leading to…
If I were to ask you whether a narcissist is truly intelligent or just foolish, what would your answer be? Many of you might say, “Oh, they’re really intelligent.” Why? Because they manipulate people so well. They’re masters of gaslighting and distorting reality. That’s true, and it’s undeniable that they can destroy lives. But I…
Number one: They will hang up on you if you give them a narcissistic injury. How can you give them a narcissistic injury? By saying no, refusing to let them control you or the situation, not behaving the way they want you to, or not giving them what they want from you. Hanging up abruptly…
A narcissist is not who they think they are. They are what they hide from others, which is why their entire life is nothing but a big performance. To maintain this performance, they secretly but religiously follow certain inner truths, some principles they abide by. These truths are not meant to be known by you,…
Have you ever wondered what a narcissist fears the most? Narcissists often seem invincible, exuding confidence and control, leaving those around them feeling fearful and uncertain. But beneath that facade, they harbor deep fears—fears they desperately try to hide. Imagine if you knew exactly what those fears were. How would that change the way you…
When it comes to diagnosis, there’s no difference between a male and a female narcissist. However, if you’ve known both, you’ll notice that those core characteristics manifest differently. In this video, we’ll explore 10 ways these characteristics present in a female covert narcissist. If you’re a man watching this, pay special attention to numbers one…
Do you know what might make a narcissist panic? By the end of this article, you’ll discover four powerful tactics that can send a narcissist into a tailspin, flipping the script in ways they usually do to you. If you’re dealing with a narcissist, you’re probably familiar with their tactics. They may be driving you…
Narcissists love to play games. They crave attention and will do just about anything to get it. One of their tactics is to pull away from someone to see how much they can make that person chase after them. So, when the Narcissist starts ignoring your calls or text messages, it is intentional. When they…
Throughout this episode, I’ll be addressing the narcissist as if I’m talking directly to them. So, be aware that I’ll be speaking to the narcissist primarily, not you as the victim. I’ll discuss you more through the context of my conversation with them. Number one: Deliberately Isolating Isolating someone from their friends and family solely…