I recently came across this article about clutter as a trauma response. I thought, “Why not explain clutter in the context of narcissistic abuse?” I always say recovery after narcissistic abuse is complex because it leaves you with complex trauma and a set of trauma responses. One such response is clutter. Now, you might be…
You’ve gone no contact and created the boundaries, and the narcissist is finally out of your life. What happens once you’ve negotiated and beat your narcissist husband, wife or business partner, and you’ve moved on? How does a narcissist handle it when you’ve rejected them or gone no contact? Read this article to find out…
It has been rightly said, a person’s eyes are the windows to their soul, because eyes tell us a lot about who they are. But when it comes to a narcissist, their eyes are the windows to their rottenness, their hollowness, and emptiness, and ultimately their narcissistic core. They make certain eye movements and position…
If you’re living with a narcissist, then the odds are that respect is something that’s been lacking in your relationship. Whether it’s through brutality, humiliation, or simply ignoring your words and feelings completely, narcissistic abuse can be incredibly difficult to overcome. In this blog post, we’ll discuss 10 powerful techniques for how to make a…
I know you think that narcissists are hurt by indifference and that they could not stand being ignored, this is true, but I have something that will hurt them even more — things that drive them to the edge. Today, I will give you the four things that hurt a narcissist more than our indifference….
When a narcissist calls you again after a long period of no contact, the cruel things you should realize, everyone, welcome to another episode. I hope you’re all doing wonderfully. Today we’re going to explore an intriguing question that many of us have pondered: Why do narcissists persistently reach out to their victims even after…
People often think having ADHD is just being distracted, scatterbrained, forgetting your keys, phone, deadlines, losing things, or always being late and never letting someone else finish a sentence. But if you know an ADHDer, you know this late, scattered person is often funny, whip-smart, creative, and generous, and may even have a track record…
Narcissists and the truth go together kind of like oil and water, and nothing is really off-limits. If you’ve been with a narcissist, you know this. But there are some common lies that all narcissists tell, and we are going to cover those in today’s article. Number one is ‘You can be vulnerable with me.’…
When a narcissist realizes that you are fully onto them, there is not much left for them to do, as it no longer benefits them to play the nice card. It becomes clear that you do not care enough for them to play the victim card. Basically, there is now no emotional connection they can…
They lie all the time; why wouldn’t they lie to themselves Have you ever talked with a narcissist about narcissistic people? It feels like being on a game show where the goal is to get your partner to say or do something. A narcissist rarely admits they’re a narcissist and instead will dance around the…