Telling lies about your partner, child, or friend to destroy their reputation because they didn’t comply with your wishes is evil. When they see through your manipulations and decide to leave the relationship or go no-contact, you launch a massive smear campaign against them. You actively seek out people in their circle to turn them against the victim. If you had put the same effort into becoming a better person, you’d be in a completely different place. But instead, you choose to invest your energy in spreading lies and destroying someone’s life. You know deep down that the things you’re saying aren’t true, but your pathological vindictiveness drives you to continue. You won’t stop until the victim is isolated, their reputation ruined, and their life destroyed. If that’s not evil, what is? This kind of behavior is characteristic of someone with an evil nature, as you leave no stone unturned to assert your control, even if it means ruining someone’s life.
Number five: Acting Cool, Calm, and Collected
Acting cool, calm, and collected in public while driving your victim to the brink of insanity in private is evil. You know exactly how to put on a show, projecting an image of being the sane, rational person while your victim appears hysterical. You take pleasure in making them look like the unstable one, framing yourself as the victim. You create an environment where the real victim is made to look like the perpetrator, while you hide behind a facade of innocence. You prey on their vulnerability and pain, knowing full well the damage you’re causing. You intentionally act this way because it serves your purpose—distorting reality so that the outside world points fingers at your victim, not at you. How could any psychological explanation justify such behavior? In my opinion, nothing can. As someone who has personally experienced this, I know the wounds it inflicts. Being with such a person feels like facing the devil incarnate. Nothing else explains why they would do something so inhumane. Many victims have told me that no matter how hurt they’ve been, they would never stoop so low. They would never inflict such pain on another person, no matter what. But narcissists choose to do so, which tells us that it’s not their pain driving them—it’s their conscious choices, repeatedly made and reinforced by their own actions.
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