Narcissists lose mental stability; you lose mental stability, can’t tell the difference between dreams and reality, and can’t take in or remember information. Your point of view changes, and so does the way you feel. They don’t care if you forget who you are; they don’t care about how much damage they cause. The only thing that matters to them is getting the energy and resources they need. Extreme gaslighting is the second biggest sin; they change your story, how you felt, and how you saw them. What were they thinking? Since they were determined to repeat what you said, of course. If they could just control your story, they could get what they want from you, force you to do things, and get you to agree to things you wouldn’t have otherwise. They wrap their psychic arms around you and squeeze until you give into their reality. When you were around them, your ideas about yourself, reality, and the world as a whole were changed, reshaped, and distorted. What was the evil plan of the narcissist until they were able to use you so that they can get your support, which lets them take responsibility for things you didn’t do, fault you didn’t have, and blame for things you did.
Willful ignorance is the third deadly sin. Narcissists are always right about what they want and what they need. They know that all they have to do is be kind, respectful, self-aware, and responsible, but they don’t really realize it. They are ready to do things on their own. Think back to the good times when the narcissist was worried that you might leave the relationship or that they might lose control over you. They changed some things about themselves and became more pleasant people. I don’t understand why people would act like that when they knew that was exactly what you needed to keep the relationship going. But they knew they had to make you beg for the bare minimum of respect, understanding, compassion, presence, intention, love, and care to keep the connection alive. It’s important to remember all the great things that can help a relationship grow. They didn’t let you do anything you asked for on purpose.
Fourth, they tried to hurt your reputation when they couldn’t control you directly. Even after they found out that the lies they were spreading were not true, they kept doing it. They made up all these lies about you to hurt you. Where did this idea come from? It came from their pure, animalistic, hatred. It’s hard to realize that I need to respect this person instead of calming down their anger problems. In relationships, it’s inevitable, but I have to let the past stay in the past. I need to give them time to get better, but they didn’t stop. Instead, they kept going.
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