It’s easy to lose credibility when you don’t do what you say you’ll do. A healthy population will abide by your rules; they’ll be grateful that you made it clear when it’s time to set limits or enforce boundaries. The opposite is true for narcissists. If they don’t give up quickly and move on, your…
In conclusion, narcissists and their flying monkeys fear many things: being exposed for their manipulation and abuse, being ignored or left alone, aging and illness, losing their narcissistic supply, and having you go no contact. Understanding these fears is essential for protecting yourself and navigating relationships with narcissists. By recognizing their vulnerabilities, you can stand…
Another reason narcissists are incapable of self-reflection is how they view who holds the power in a relationship. For a narcissist, power isn’t just a perk; it’s the entire operating system of their relationships. Every interaction is subtly or not so subtly calibrated to keep them in the dominant position. But self-reflection threatens to scramble…
Despite appearing self-sufficient, narcissists are highly dependent on others for their sense of worth. They need constant validation from their surroundings to maintain their fragile egos. If you remove yourself from their life, their false self will collapse. They need you more than you need them. Their sense of importance comes from the impact they…
If they can’t find a new source of supply, or they simply don’t want to make the effort, they will reach out to old sources of supply. Most narcissists have a list of old suppliers, such as exes, that haven’t fully cut them off yet. The ex might think that they are special because the…
I think the most difficult part for an awakened empath is accepting that your love, patience, and understanding cannot save someone who does not want to be saved. Narcissists would rather maintain their destructive patterns than risk the vulnerability required for real change. Now, these truths that I shared with you do not excuse their…