You’re sharing something genuine or meaningful, and suddenly you notice them glance sideways. It’s quick, dismissive, and unmistakably condescending. That side-eye glance carries hidden contempt; it quietly tells you that they do not respect your words, feelings, or your presence. They do not openly criticize or interrupt you; instead, they use a subtle, judgmental look to diminish you silently. But the message is clear: they think less of you and want you to feel it without openly admitting it.
7. The Tight Jaw You Are Meant to Miss
The tight jaw you are meant to miss happens in a flash. You say something that touches a nerve they do not want to act out on. Maybe you express confidence, set a boundary, or call something out, and their jaw tightens. The rest of their face stays calm, but their jaw is tense. Most people would miss it, but your body picks it up. That tight jaw is not tension from stress; it is restrained rage. It is the narcissist holding back their reaction. They’ll smile and nod, but their jaw tells the truth. It is their mask cracking for just a second, revealing the anger and control issues hiding underneath their calm facade.
8. The Stillness That Feels Like Surveillance
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