Remember that one of the central mantras of a narcissistic relationship is: “You can’t win.” You can’t ask for a script, and you can’t even figure out how to say it because they don’t even know the right answer. So, everyone talks about how to stay in touch with a narcissist—low contact, no contact, yellow…
There are certain lines that resurface during every disagreement. Narcissists tend to bring out their go-to statements, the ones that leave you wondering: Are these people following a script? These remarks tend to trigger you almost every time. Narcissists are often loud, arrogant, and need to have the last word. But do these words reveal…
It’s a fact: narcissists are everywhere! Many are so well hidden in our society that you’d be surprised to discover who among the pillars of our community might actually be a narcissist. As a result, it’s nearly impossible to separate or eradicate them, as some people might wish. I often receive comments from viewers asking…
Rage can be manifested by anyone when triggered by something. Even children throw tantrums when their needs are not attended to. However, it is a different case when it comes to narcissists. Narcissistic rage can occur regardless of whether it is reasonable or not, as long as the ego a narcissist has been protecting is…
Today’s topic is all about when a narcissist cannot stop thinking about you. This applies to all narcissists, whether they are a narcissistic parent, friend, co-worker, family member, or romantic partner. First, I need to address the fact that narcissists often leave people trauma-bonded and without closure, which leaves victims in a state of distress…
Have you ever paused to wonder why your relationship with a narcissist felt doomed from the start? As though you were trapped in a web of manipulation, deceit, and selfishness—only to realize, at some point, that you were never truly meant to stay forever? What if I told you that your role wasn’t to be…
When a narcissist feels defeated, their ego crumbles, and they realize they can no longer bring you down. This is when their true nature emerges. They lose control—it’s as if a mask shatters, revealing their insecure, childlike impulsiveness. Reactivity becomes their go-to mode of operation as they transform into desperate, petty individuals playing games with…
Today, I want to talk about the personality traits that victims of narcissistic abuse tend to develop. I’m not referring to their true personality, but rather who they become as a result of the abuse. This is true whether it stems from childhood trauma caused by narcissistic parents or a long-term relationship with a narcissist….
In a person’s early adult years, traits associated with narcissism can emerge, but there is hope that as maturity catches up, those narcissistic tendencies can lessen. Dr. Les Carter explains that unfortunately many narcissists not only do not mature, but their tendencies worsen with age. He highlights seven of the most common indicators of narcissists…
One of the most confusing and infuriating things about dealing with a narcissist is their ability to flip the narrative and become the eternal victim. Despite all the proof, they do not see you as the one who endured their manipulation, gaslighting, or emotional neglect. Instead, in their eyes, you are the villain, and you…