Other narcissists might manage their collapse through substance abuse. Narcissism and addiction often go hand in hand, and their injury can trigger a relapse. This is particularly dangerous if they engage in reckless behaviors while under the influence, such as driving or co-parenting.
In the most extreme cases, a narcissistic collapse can lead to self-harming thoughts or behaviors. This risk is heightened in vulnerable narcissists, especially after a massive public loss of face. Their sense of fragility, hidden beneath grandiosity, can make these situations extremely precarious. If you suspect this type of behavior in someone close to you, it’s crucial to seek professional help immediately.
When a narcissist’s mask falls off, you might think this is the moment of change — that they’ll finally take responsibility or apologize. However, it’s unlikely. They will continue to shift blame, withdraw, or act out in new ways. While the public may now see the truth, you’re left navigating both their inflated and deflated egos. If you’re in a relationship with a narcissist, their collapse may trigger old trauma-bonded patterns like guilt, pity, or feeling like a bad person.
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