5 Insane Things Only a Narcissist Does.
They throw tantrums like a toddler.
I would say it’s worse than that, because you can communicate with a child, and you can help them understand why they aren’t getting something at a certain time—and why they need to tolerate disappointment. You can train a child to do that.
But a narcissist can never be trained to do so.
Why? Because it’s a child stuck in an adult’s body. They have the physical and other capabilities of an adult, but their emotional and psychological capabilities are childish. This is a toxic mess.
If they want something, they want it—and they want it immediately. That points to their need for instant gratification and their extreme impulsivity.
Sometimes their tantrums are ugly—they look like a child acting out. Other times, they are terrifying: punching holes in walls, breaking things, destroying your relationships with others, and going on massive “smash campaigns.”
That is part of their tantrum, and it’s a sign that they’ve lost control. So they try to control the environment—and control other people associated with you—in order to control your life.
These tantrums can become really, really dangerous if the narcissist has the power and resources to take revenge on you.
That’s why it’s extremely important to say this: they believe vengeance is their right. They don’t care about the relationship they shared with you in the past.
Let’s say you’re divorcing them. They will wage a full-on war against you. It will truly turn into a battle. They will show zero empathy or sympathy. They will use your children against you, if it means you’ll be destroyed.
They’ll do everything in their capacity to punish you—weaponizing doctors, weaponizing psychologists, and most importantly (and unfortunately), weaponizing the court system to tear you apart and destroy you permanently.
If you ask them, “Why are you doing this to the other parent of your children? Don’t you even respect the fact that they spend time with the same children you claim to love?”—of course not.
They will justify their actions and escalate it to the nth degree, if they possibly can.
If you’ve been through such an experience, you might already know it—and you can share your experience in the comments below and help other people understand how bad and ugly it gets.
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