The Ultimate Dirty Trick The Narcissist Tries When He Sees You as Too Strong
When a narcissist sees you finally become too strong for their games, they don’t give up. They up the ante. After a decade helping people recover, I’ve seen the ultimate dirty trick they use to pull you back in many times. So, I’ll show you the signs, the exact response, and how to stay unshakable no matter what they try.
So, what happens when a narcissist sees you’ve become too strong and you’re not playing the game or falling for their BS anymore? When it’s clear you’ve grown, evolved, and—because you’re more personally empowered—the game has changed, well, a few things really depend on the type of narcissist you’re dealing with.
For example, a fragile, vulnerable, more covert narcissist will be triggered by your strength and confidence. They’ll feel threatened by it. The moment your strength begins to shine a light on their own inadequacies, shortcomings, lack of personal integrity, or moral compass, your personal power, strength, and resolve will become a problem. And in their mind, you are now their adversary.
Suddenly, you’re the villain, and they, of course, the victim—which is always par for the course when you’re dealing with a covert narcissist. They are always the victim in every situation, even circumstances they themselves create and perpetuate.
Now, a more overt, grandiose narcissist may initially find your strength and personal power attractive. In fact, they’ll find the challenge your confidence offers to be compelling—maybe even irresistible. At least, again, initially… until they aren’t getting their way.
That’s when it becomes clear that you aren’t going to be so easily manipulated, dominated, deceived, or controlled. Then your strength and personal power will become a problem—a big problem for the narcissist—which will frustrate them to no end and, therefore, justify in their mind any retaliatory behavior on their part.
And that brings us to the kind of dirty tricks the narcissist will try once they see you as too strong to control.
Starting with the manufacturing of guilt and shame.
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