The Ultimate Dirty Trick The Narcissist Tries When He Sees You as Too Strong
Once the narcissist is triggered by your strength, confidence, and courage—your personal power—in addition to gossiping behind your back and discrediting you to others, the narcissist will also jump at every opportunity to knock you down a peg or two. They’ll happily point out any mistakes, flaws, failings, or perceived shortcomings, lest you think too highly of yourself, feel good about yourself in any way, or—again, God forbid—anyone else see you in a favorable light.
They’ll also hold your history and any past mistakes you’ve made over your head with a bizarre sense of glee. They’ll take great delight in holding your past against you, holding it up like an old picture on the wall they simply refuse to take down. No matter how far you’ve come, how much you’ve grown, or how much you may have changed in the years or decades since, anything they can latch on to will be used against you.
They’ll also take great pleasure in honing in on any vulnerabilities and sensitivities with deliberate intent to cause you to doubt and second-guess yourself.
In other words, they will deliberately manufacture and amplify any feelings of guilt, shame, fear, inadequacy, and insecurity within you for no other reason than to keep you in line and feeling inferior.
When in reality, it’s their own deeply buried feelings of inferiority that drive all of this nonsense and insanity.
And unless you’ve been on the receiving end of this kind of emotional and psychological abuse, it can be difficult to fathom that people can be this kind of cruel for no other reason than their own fear, shame, and insecurities being activated.
But I assure you: it happens every day all day long with narcissistically abusive people.
So, what’s the solution?
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