6 Ways a Narcissist Uses Sleep To Cheat On You
They fake falling asleep. They might be sleeping in the same bed because they can’t go out. They’ll patiently wait for you to fall asleep like a predator. Once you fall asleep, they have all the time and space in the world to do their “shitty” things.
They either creep out of bed very silently so you don’t wake up—or they stay in the same bed because they don’t want to alert you.
Once you’ve fallen asleep, they may log onto porn sites. They may start chatting with people around the world—maybe it’s sexting, maybe it’s things they shouldn’t do because they’re in a relationship with you. They betray you. They cheat on you. It’s hidden, and you don’t know about it.
They might call their supply and speak softly and silently, and you wouldn’t be able to hear. If you then ask them whether they were talking with someone—and you ask, “Who was it?”—they call you crazy. They gaslight you and make you think you’re hearing things, and that what you heard wasn’t real.
But in reality, they were definitely talking with people, and you heard the right thing.
So they do all the “shitty” things they cannot do in your presence—because they have the space and time, and you’re not keeping an eye on them.
Number Five: They Immediately Fall Asleep After an Intense Argument
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