When a Narcissist Realizes You Don’t Care Anymore…They Do THIS

Now, I want to bring up another thing: it all depends on what’s going on in the narcissist’s life. When the narcissist realizes you don’t care anymore, remember—that’s usually toward the end of the relationship. In the beginning, they knew you cared.

When the relationship gets to that point of breaking down, the narcissist usually already has a backup in place. So they kind of know that eventually you’re going to smarten up and see what’s going on. And at that point, they already have somebody in place. This is another reason why they always have a backup: they know that eventually the mask is going to fall.

Even if you see the mask fall, narcissists still think they can relove bomb you back and get you back. But the point is this: the narcissist will be busy with somebody else—a lot of times.

So when they start to see you don’t care, they’re not going to put their time and effort into you. They’ll put their time and effort into somebody else.

So there are two ways it can go. At that point, they could say, “Okay, you don’t seem to care. I’m going to give my attention and energy to somebody else. I’m going to love bomb somebody else—the person I have on the side. I’m going to make them the ‘grade-A supply.’ And I’m going to put you on the side and not bother with you.” Then, in time, they may try to Hoover you—trying to reel you back in. That’s how the narcissist feels.

Or, they may not care enough because you’re not their “grade-A supply,” and they feel like they’re not losing much. So they’ll be busy with other supply and may touch base with you in a couple of months—just to feel you out, out of curiosity—but they’re still going to be busy with the other person.

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