When a Narcissist Realizes You Don’t Care Anymore…They Do THIS

Because I see what you are, and I don’t care anymore. I value myself. I don’t need you to validate me. I have other things going on in my life—other people in my life—and you are insignificant.

Okay. Insignificant.

Also, you guys: if you block the narcissist, they hate it. They absolutely positively hate when you block them.

Someone asked me, “Is it better to block them or not respond?” It’s better to block them. Blocking is permanent. It’s a permanent way of showing them, “I’m done with you.” You blocked their access; they have no way to reach you unless they try to contact you through another number—and you’re never going to answer.

But if you don’t block them, they’ll feel like you still care. There’s still an opening. They’ll weasel their way back in because you didn’t fully close the door.

So yes—block them and show them it’s a wrap.

Not today, Satan. I never want you back in my life.

So when you show them you don’t care, they may back off and get busy with other supply. They may try relove bombing. They may smear you. They may accuse you of cheating. They’ll do all of these things.

It always goes like this:

• When they’re hot with you, it’s because they need you.
• When they’re cold with you, it’s because they don’t need you.

If they act indifferent and like they don’t need you, it’s usually because they have somebody.

So when you act like that—when you’re cold, when you’re indifferent—they think, “Oh, okay. You either see through the mask and don’t want to be bothered, or you’ve got somebody and you’re cheating on me.”

So they’ll assume you’re cheating because they want to put shame on you. They want you to feel “dirty.” So if you pull away and act like you don’t care, don’t be surprised if they start accusing you of cheating.

This happened to me. That’s how I know. You wouldn’t know these things unless you went through it and were the victim of it.

So I’m telling you—everything I share—I lived through. I’ve been through it. That’s why I can speak on it with confidence. I’m not repeating something I heard somewhere. I’ve experienced it.

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